Confessions of a Cheater...

BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
edited April 2011 in Life
Its true. Last night i cheated on My gf while

she thought i was at home a sleep. The past times

I've cheated its never phased me. But as i was porking

Ms. 45 year old I began to think about her. Guilt finally hit

me as i rammed my hard cock inside this old bitch. After I busted inside

this Milf I layed there in her bed thinking about my gf. I have

Done a lot of cheating in past but its never hit me cause they were escorts.

So it felt ok to me. But taking home a older lady from a bar obviously

Opened my eyes. I plan on telling her some time next year. But for

Now i have a date planned with mS mom on tuesday :p


Long story short...I banged this old lady last night. and I felt guilty

that i cheated on my gf. Help me totse?

Comments

  • DaktologistDaktologist Global Moderator
    edited March 2011
    Pics or it didnt happen
  • TraumTraum Regular
    edited March 2011
    Perhaps yer feelings towards yer gf have deepened. Also you could have been wondering how you would feel if it was her cheating instead.

    I cheat on just about every female I have ever been with, this was not always so, but after having it done to me alot, I stopped caring.
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited March 2011
    Traum wrote: »

    I cheat on just about every female I have ever been with, this was not always so, but after having it done to me alot, I stopped caring.

    same here. Now i just get in relationships

    for benefits. :thumbsup:

    DaktoloGizz, I dont have pics but you can trust me im Cool. :cool:
  • TraumTraum Regular
    edited March 2011
    I hate to make a facebook reference but I wish I could "like" yer last post Dick. ;)
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited March 2011
    So truam and I are the Only scumbags

    On &T? Yeah right i know others have cheated before.

    Don't worry i wont judge you ;)
  • StephenPBarrettStephenPBarrett Adviser
    edited March 2011
    If you actually feel bad you should tell her. The only reason I see not to would be to keep her for a while unless you think she would be down for a threesome. You might get lucky but if you don't you'll probably lose her.
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited March 2011
    More than likely i will lose her. Shes been really good

    to me. I'm just not a committed person and i told her this from the begging.

    I know i have to tell her soon, i have to be prepared for the worse.
  • StephenPBarrettStephenPBarrett Adviser
    edited March 2011
    Yeah that's one way. The other is you could just not tell her at all and hope she never finds out but if she does it will be worse than just telling her. Besides if you care for her it is the "right thing to do" and all that mess. Either way be ready for a cry/temper tantrum when she does find out.
  • ducklipsducklips Regular
    edited March 2011
    . . . be ready for a cry/temper tantrum when she does find out.

    excuse me? a tantrum? really? finding out someone you cared about who you thought cared enough about you to not get his dick wet somewhere else (and not use a condom, I'm assuming this there was none) fucking sucks. Shit broke my heart when it happened to me. It really depends on the depth of your relationship on whether or not it will survive.

    I for the record never cheated on my bf's, always been a long term monogamous kinda girl. sure i messed around between guys but the lines never crossed. nor should they ever.

    unless you're in one of those freaky kinky swinger relationships.
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited March 2011
    Ty ducklips for describing a womans perspective.

    I know i should have not done this to her. I'm going to

    regret it in the end. I do expect a large amount of emotions

    to fly out at me.

    But I will not apologize for my actions. I went to the bar sober and left

    sober with this lady. I knew what i was doing from the start to end.

    All i can do is told her i told you so.
  • ducklipsducklips Regular
    edited March 2011
    np

    i can't really say anything about your relationship as I do not know the details. However, it sounds like it was just about sex and like MM was saying and a couple other people I forget who The fact that you feel guilty about it means that you care more than maybe you would like to or have noticed previously. Hopefully (I like to think women stop being little girls the older they get :/) you could work though it but yes It'll be ugly for a day to two.
  • mynicknamemynickname Acolyte
    edited March 2011
    I've cheated on just about every girl I've been with the exception was my wife, who cheated on me. so now I'm a do me
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited March 2011
    Whats the point of being married when

    couples majority of time cheat on each other?

    I dont get it man....
  • mynicknamemynickname Acolyte
    edited March 2011
    Whats the point of being married when

    couples majority of time cheat on each other?

    I dont get it man....

    word. except in my case I was actually good for once karma is a muthafucka
  • AverageAverage Regular
    edited March 2011
    I'm sure she's cheated on you, but just hasn't told you.
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited March 2011
    Average wrote: »
    I'm sure she's cheated on you, but just hasn't told you.

    you mother fucker. You about to dig out the JErry SPringer shit

    out on me. Fuck, yes she did with my step bro. Ever since then

    I been paying her back. :angry:
  • edited March 2011
    you mother fucker. You about to dig out the JErry SPringer shit

    out on me. Fuck, yes she did with my step bro. Ever since then

    I been paying her back. :angry:

    Sounds like you two are perfect for each other!
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited March 2011
    Nah, no such thing. It will always end up in the trash.

    Resource. History

    I'm not saying dont get into a relationship. I'm saying it sucks when you're in one.

    Catch 22 style.
  • xyzxyz New Arrival
    edited April 2011
    you mother fucker. You about to dig out the JErry SPringer shit

    out on me. Fuck, yes she did with my step bro. Ever since then

    I been paying her back. :angry:

    fuck. that. shit.
    you're completely justified.
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited April 2011
    thanks hommie.

    Bout time i have a real response.
  • ducklipsducklips Regular
    edited April 2011
    so...I guess you are even then...
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited April 2011
    define the word even?

    and i dont know probably not.
  • bornkillerbornkiller Administrator In your girlfriends snatch
    edited April 2011
    You got cougared in a bar? How was it mang? I hear the older ones are screamers. Is that true? :cool:
  • PhilosoraptorPhilosoraptor Regular
    edited April 2011
    bornkiller wrote: »
    You got cougared in a bar? How was it mang? I hear the older ones are screamers. Is that true? :cool:

    Yes.
  • bornkillerbornkiller Administrator In your girlfriends snatch
    edited April 2011
    Yes.
    Fuck Yeah! That's me....I'm going cougar hunting. :thumbsup:
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited April 2011
    bornkiller wrote: »
    You got cougared in a bar? How was it mang? I hear the older ones are screamers. Is that true? :cool:


    She was a loud moaner. I think her daughter in the other room

    kept her screaming levels down. But i do recommend getting a

    cougar. It was worth everything. :fap::fap::thumbsup:
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited April 2011
    **UPDATE**

    Ok So my (ex)gf finally found out about This older lady i been seeing. She caught me

    slipping like a dumbass i left my phone on the coffee table when i was taking a shit

    and she saw a txt message from older lady. It was chaos! Fucking yelling, threw my phone

    at me. Good thing it didnt break. I couldn't help myself but i laughed alittle

    then told her the whole story. Well she didnt take it so well and now Im on the single list. Any takers?

    But i feel better being single although im losing out on benfits its still a :thumbsup:

    for me.

    thats all ty!

    All in all if your going to cheat. Never leave your phone on the coffee table while you take a shit
  • StephenPBarrettStephenPBarrett Adviser
    edited April 2011
    ^ wise words. You have to constantly be on the defense. Security is extremely important no matter what the circumstance. To me it doesn't seem worth all the trouble but to each his own. You should write a guide on how not to get caught since you have personal experience and know what to look for aside from the obvious. I would but Username would jump to false conclusions.
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited April 2011
    yeah i could do this.

    Let me work out something for the young bucs coming here

    who need to learn the basics
  • HelladamnleetHelladamnleet Banned
    edited April 2011
    It's hard

    to take you seriously

    when you

    type

    like this
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited April 2011
    It's hard

    to take you seriously

    when you

    type

    like this

    then get

    the fuck

    out

    of

    my threads
  • DfgDfg Admin
    edited April 2011
    Well, it seems everything turned out well. You're better off without her because honestly you're not meant to be together. No go wild and fuck as many cougars and pussies your dick can handle and avoid gettings AIDS.

    Have fun being single.
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited April 2011
    ^^ ty

    So far its been good being single. I kinda miss the free stuff benefit

    But i just get high and forget about the problem.
  • edited April 2011
    ^^ ty

    So far its been good being single. I kinda miss the free stuff benefit

    But i just get high and forget about the problem.

    I have never cheated, although the only girls I've been in relationships were kinda skanky so mb I shud have.... Either way, getting high to forget things werks well...

    And I guess you can still bang the old chick anyways :D
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited April 2011
    yeah shes cool chic for being old. But lets be real for a minute.

    Shes old i cant really be seen in public with some old hag.

    I need fresh young pussy
  • JeuxJeux Acolyte
    edited April 2011
    yeah shes cool chic for being old. But lets be real for a minute.

    Shes old i cant really be seen in public with some old hag.

    I need fresh young pussy

    Ha! As if she'd want to be seen with you in public either .....

    Pretty obvious women of that/my age are just in it for the sex.

    Now as for what happened , if it's true that your gf cheated on you previously , then I guess I can understand you doing it. I probably wouldn't try that hard to be monogomous either after someone had cheated on me and if presented with an opportunity would probably take it.

    Once someone cheats , the relationship is pretty well fucked anyway .

    It would never continue to be a long lasting relationship with cheating hanging over your heads constantly being thrown in your/her face at any opportunity.

    Probably the best thing you've split up.
  • JeuxJeux Acolyte
    edited April 2011
    Pennywise wrote: »
    how old do you have to be to become a cougar?

    Usually over 35 ....
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited April 2011
    Jeux wrote: »
    Ha! As if she'd want to be seen with you in public either .....

    Pretty obvious women of that/my age are just in it for the sex.

    Now as for what happened , if it's true that your gf cheated on you previously , then I guess I can understand you doing it. I probably wouldn't try that hard to be monogomous either after someone had cheated on me and if presented with an opportunity would probably take it.

    Once someone cheats , the relationship is pretty well fucked anyway .

    It would never continue to be a long lasting relationship with cheating hanging over your heads constantly being thrown in your/her face at any opportunity.

    Probably the best thing you've split up.

    oh im sure she doesn't. Its mainly a casual sex relationship.

    We do however go out at nite to bars and such. So i guess it is being out in public.

    And your right my previous relationship once she did that to me it was over. I gave it

    another shot. After that it was downhill from there. It is best that she ended it.
    Hopefully she can learn from this and not do it again. And as for me im stubborn

    and will do it again.
  • JeuxJeux Acolyte
    edited April 2011
    Since I turned 38 or so , I've had a few of young guys ( between 20 - 30) hit on me when out . More so than when I was in my early late 20's - early 30's.
    Maybe it's my demeanour that's changed or my confidence. Who knows.

    (Won't go into any details as to whether I hooked up or not).

    Personally , I prefer men my own age or older and I don't really understand the older woman /younger guy thing. ( oh I can from a female perspective but not from the male one) .
    I always thought the young guys went after the old ones coz it was more of a sure thing lol - easy to get and less work and not much concern about a relationship.
  • JeuxJeux Acolyte
    edited April 2011
    oh im sure she doesn't. Its mainly a casual sex relationship.

    We do however go out at nite to bars and such. So i guess it is being out in public.

    And your right my previous relationship once she did that to me it was over. I gave it

    another shot. After that it was downhill from there. It is best that she ended it.
    Hopefully she can learn from this and not do it again. And as for me im stubborn

    and will do it again.

    So BHD , how old are you?

    And are you going to continue to see the " old hag" for now?

    If in time you started a new relationship , would you continue to keep the older woman about for sex now and then if she was still into it , or would you stop that when starting another relationship?
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited April 2011
    it is a sure thing. And yes it is easy. After the first one I realized how exciting it was

    for me. Having sex with an older woman who was way experienced in bedroom and allowed

    me to dominate her was everything you could ask for. Since then i have been hooked.

    And its like the older man wants your girl type deal. Just reversed.
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited April 2011
    Jeux wrote: »
    So BHD , how old are you?

    And are you going to continue to see the " old hag" for now?

    If in time you started a new relationship , would you continue to keep the older woman about for sex now and then if she was still into it , or would you stop that when starting another relationship?

    i am 27,

    lol @ old hag, and yes i have been talking to her and on occasion we go out.

    I'm not sure how i feel exactly with having an actual relationship with her. She is well off in her life having

    a real job and stable home with good income. I can and will continue the sex until

    it becomes needy, or she becomes attached. Then i will slowly distant myself from her. and let her know i'm not interested at the moment.
  • JeuxJeux Acolyte
    edited April 2011
    i am 27,

    lol @ old hag, and yes i have been talking to her and on occasion we go out.

    I'm not sure how i feel exactly with having an actual relationship with her. She is well off in her life having

    a real job and stable home with good income. I can and will continue the sex until

    it becomes needy, or she becomes attached. Then i will slowly distant myself from her. and let her know i'm not interested at the moment.

    OH yes when I said " see her " I didn't mean relationship , I meant continue to see her for sex ....

    Even if you or her wanted to have a proper relationship , it wouldn't work anyway . The excitement would soon stop after seeing her first thing every morning :eek:
  • BigHarryDickBigHarryDick Cock Bite
    edited April 2011
    Nick wrote: »
    Well Harry, you are not married, and your gf probably has done the same as you did, so just enjoy it and learn from the experiences, that way you will be ready for marriage with a woman that you won't feel the need to cheat, but now , it's not cheating, it's just being free from worries and searching for what you want.

    Myself haven't cheated on my wife, nor have I gone with other woman besides my wife, nor do I intend to go, it's just how every person perceives life.:)

    :thumbsup::thumbsup:

    for actually having a decent post!

    and lol@ jeux. I can imagine what she looks like in the morning nothing compared to seeing her dressed up thats for sure.
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