Alright,
I'm not even sure if I'm there already (hopefully not yet), but here's the story:
I work with this girl. I fell for her the first time I saw her but I didn't really let her know since I'm of position and she just started working with the company. Eventually I tried to get close to her but not to close. It's hard to explain, but hopefully you guys get what I mean. Then we had a company party and I had way too much of a drink. I might have said a couple of sappy things to her, hopefully nothing sexually aggressive.
I know she knows how I feel about her. But whenever I try to talk to her personally or try to ask her out, she would be 'doing something'. I don't really talk that much to her at work since I fear of rumours spreading out. I am a very secretive guy as you see. I do text her almost daily though it would just be short conversations since she's always 'doing something'.
I really like this girl. Hopefully I didn't screw this up. Not to mention I'm that awkward kind of guy.
Any advices?
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2. Buy two tickets to an appropriate nearby show.
3. Tell you her you and a friend were going but your friends gerbil died and he is too upset to go and ask her if she would like his ticket.
4. ???
5. Profit.
I think you have your answer right there. Looks like she's not interested dude. If there are no signals, don't waste your time. You'll only wind up either losing a friend or looking like an idiot.
I have to agree. If she was keen she would want to hang out if you asked her.
This. It's best not to flog a dead horse and be labelled a creep. You could leave it a while and see if she makes a move, but if not, then have a wank over her, realise the time vs effort factor and move on
Do girls have that ADD complex when it comes to guys?
Chances are, you read the signals wrong. She would say if she was interested.
I don't necessarily agree with that last part. Many people find it difficult to make the first move no matter what they feel out of fear of rejection.
Maybe try that?
I dont know whats more difficult to get out of, the friend zone or the fried zone?
because they might have hot friends
Judging by that guys posts, I think he likes animals. Don't worry, I've already had to take action on one of his retarded posts.
Possibly
Yes, rejection is a bitch. Usually I won't care but there's just something about this girl.
And it's that same reason I guess why I tried to play the nice guy role. Unfortunately that didn't pan out. Hopefully it's not too late.
I wish i was in the fried zone instead.
I don't know about avoiding but just recently she's been visiting me during breaks at work to say hi. Maybe I'm reading that wrong too. I did smoke a bowl with her on the weekend (I'm a quiet person when I'm stoned or drunk so I didn't really say much). She did mentioned that I put too much meanings on little things. Now that you think of it, what does it really mean? Let's just be friends or fuck with no attachment?
I guess I'm the oblivious one.