Does anyone else find that their fetishes make it harder to hold down a relationship?
My situation is this. I have a fetish for sadistic behavior, humiliating and degrading my partners. I find that when my partner doesn't want anything to do with these fetishes, I become bitter towards them, and even want to leave. I find that denial of my fetishes completely kills my sex drive and passion. Once sex is no longer desirable with that person, it pushes me to seek a more willing partner.
I have this problem with my current GF. We've been together for about a year and a half. She won't do certain things that I like. At first I just suppressed it and things seemed to be fine. Over the last couple months, sex has completely lost it's appeal to me. I'm most likely going to leave her next week. This weekend is her Birthday, so I'm not going to dump her two days before it. I'm pretty sure things can't be fixed at this point. I've talked to her about it, but she just isn't willing to play along with the fetishes that are a very large part of me. It's a really shitty situation. Not too sure if I'm going to find someone who has fetishes that coincide with mine.
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Also, I remember dumping one of my ex's on her actual birthday. What actually made it worse is that I actually forgot it was her birthday as well, so I kinda double-failed there.
Lol, you sound like you were an awesome BF.
I can picture it. "I'm leaving you." "You're leaving me on my birthday?""It's your birthday" :thumbsup:
This person speaks the truth! If you do this then you wont have to waste money buying her a present.
This is true
Not that I advocate this... just sayin', we don't always know what we want.
We'll see. I might still leave her ass if she has another dramatic episode.
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