The G-Spot [Published]

blindbatblindbat Regular
edited June 2011 in Life
The Gräfenberg Spot, often called the G-Spot, is the bean-shaped area of the vagina that many women report to contain an erogenous zone which when stimulated can lead to high levels of sexual arousal, powerful orgasms and female ejaculation.

The Gräfenberg Spot is typically located one to three inches up the front (anterior) vaginal wall between the vagina opening and the urethra and is a sensitive area that is part of the female prostate.

GUIDE TO THE G-SPOT

Before I start, the g-spot is not an actual spot but its a zone, it is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside, you will know when you have found it when you feel a ribbed bump, is like the roof of your mouth just begin your front teeth.
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Do all women have a G-spot?

Yes all women are likely to have a G-spot. However, some women respond extremely well to G-spot stimulation while some may dislike the sensation altogether.


What you must do before stimulating the G-Spot?

In every case women clitoris should be stimulated first before stimulating the g-spot. When it is wholly stimulated, it will be too sensitive for direct contact. When the clitoris is uncomfortable and dry, you can then move into the g-spot.

1. Trim your nails short

Watch out for long or sharp nails. They can cause small cuts or tears in the delicate skin in and around the vagina.

2. Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay

It builds sexual arousal and fills the sex organs with blood, making them more responsive. The more you foreplay, the more pleasure you'll get when you have sex. Without foreplay, touching your G-spot may be uncomfortable or even painful. Orgasm is much more likely after lots of foreplay.

The Best Positions to Stimulate the G-Spot


Use the doggy position:

The woman kneels on all fours in the doggy position, and pushes her hips back. This position really helps with G-spot massage. Pushing your hips back increases pressure in your pelvis. Your legs, hips and bum tighten up and gently squash your vagina and pelvic muscles. Most importantly, this position pushes the G-spot slightly further out into the vagina, making it easier to find and stimulate.
op 10 Positions for Women's Orgams:

These sexual positions, generally, will help a woman reach orgasm faster:
  1. Woman on Top
  2. Reverse Cowgirl
  3. Rear Entry or Doggie Style
  4. Modified Missionary (He's kneeling with his top half upright)
  5. The Butterfly (Missionary, with the woman's pelvis tilted up, a pillow under the butt, and her legs in the air.)
  6. Coital Alignment Technique (Start out in missionary position; he edges forward until both partners' pubic bones meet.)
  7. Standing Facing Each Other
  8. Standing Rear Entry
  9. Sitting Lotus Position
  10. Spooning


How to Stimulate the G-spot with Techniques


Videos:
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The motion you should use is "come over here" gesture with your fingers. Always bear in mind that the g-spot and clitoris are different, which implies that sometimes you will hit it harder than the clitoris. Begin by massaging it smoothly and work your way to a point she finds exciting.

Press on the G-spot
The man inserts his thumb into her vagina and presses down onto her G-spot. He should be able to feel her G-spot as a bumpy, ridged area about 2 to 3 centimetres in diameter. When a woman is aroused, her G-spot gets larger and protrudes into the vaginal canal.

Massage the G-spot.
The man massages her G-spot back and forth, with firm pressure, with the pad of his thumb. The pressure has to firm. The G-spot contains pressure sensitive nerve endings, so only a deep, firm massaging will work. Unlike the clitoris, the G-spot doesn't respond to light pressure.

Relax your PC muscle.
The woman should relax her PC (pubococcygeus) muscle and keep it relaxed. The female PC muscle in women is similar to the male PC muscle. It connects the tail bone to the pubic bone, it can clench, release and push, and it can be used to prevent the passing of urine. You can feel it in action by placing a finger just inside your vagina and squeezing.

When a woman's G-spot is being stroked, she may feel like tensing her PC muscle. Don't do this - she should keep it relaxed. It's believed that tensing the PC muscle blocks the action of the Female Prostate. Along with firm pressure on the G-spot, this is one of the keys to G-spot orgasm. Relaxing the PC muscle is also the key to female ejaculation.

ORGASM!!

Let go of the 'pee feeling'.

This is the final piece of the G-spot orgasm puzzle, and also unlocks female ejaculation. As pleasure builds during G-spot massage, a woman will feel the sensation of needing to pee. The key to both G-spot orgasm and female ejaculation is to just let this feeling go. What's happening is the build up to female ejaculation or squirting. This is a clear odourless liquid emitted from the urethra during G-spot massage. The liquid comes from an organ that surround the urethra known as the female prostate. The female prostate becomes engorged during sexual pleasure and blocks the flow of urine from your bladder, so you can't pee.

G-Spot Orgasm

It may take up to a half an hour of stimulation for her to have a G-spot orgasm, but don’t worry, it’s worth every second.

When she has a G-spot orgasm, you’ll know. Her vagina will contract violently, so violently, in fact, that it may feel like she’s trying to push your fingers out. G-spot orgasms are also accompanied by uncontrollable panting or moaning and sometimes even female ejaculation.

Clitoral stimulation can produce multiple orgasms, but they are more common with G-spot stimulation. If she still wants more after the first one, continued stimulation may lead to a second, third, or even a tenth orgasm.

Multiples or not, many women swear that G-spot orgasms are one of the most satisfying, fulfilling experiences in their entire lives.

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Comments

  • edited September 2010
    EPIC guide bro! This is the kind of guide which will make guys all over the world feel like gods of sex. Amazing :D
  • fanglekaifanglekai Regular
    edited September 2010
    Excellent thread! Could I edit the title, though? I think it would look bettter as "Guide: The G-Spot!"
  • blindbatblindbat Regular
    edited September 2010
    sure go ahead.
  • DfgDfg Admin
    edited September 2010
    Needs some formatting like, image centering and other stuff. Blindbat if you don't mind, I am willing to format the guide :).
  • blindbatblindbat Regular
    edited September 2010
    sure go ahead too.
  • NegrophobeNegrophobe Regular
    edited November 2010
    What a retarded thread, way to waste every person's time.

    The so-called female G-spot is a stupid myth concocted by feminists and other agents of "feminine emancipation" to make women appear to be what they are most definitely not. Women have and will always be frigid, relatively speaking;
    What an anti-climax: G-spot is a myth

    A sexual quest that has for years baffled millions of women — and men — may have been in vain. A study by British scientists has found that the mysterious G-spot, the sexual pleasure zone said to be possessed by some women but denied to others, may not exist at all.

    The scientists at King’s College London who carried out the study claim there is no evidence for the existence of the G-spot — supposedly a cluster of internal nerve endings — outside the imagination of women influenced by magazines and sex therapists. They reached their conclusions after a survey of more than 1,800 British women.

    “Women may argue that having a G-spot is due to diet or exercise, but in fact it is virtually impossible to find real traits,” said Tim Spector, professor of genetic epidemiology, who co-authored the research. “This is by far the biggest study ever carried out and it shows fairly conclusively that the idea of a G-spot is subjective.”

    In the research, 1,804 British women aged 23-83 answered questionnaires. All were pairs of identical or non-identical twins. Identical twins share all their genes, while non-identical pairs share 50% of theirs. If one identical twin reported having a G-spot, this would make it far more likely that her sister would give the same answer. But no such pattern emerged, suggesting the G-spot is a matter of the woman’s subjective opinion.

    While 56% of women overall claimed to have a G-spot, they tended to be younger and more sexually active. Identical twins were no more likely to share the characteristic than non-identical twins.

    Andrea Burri, who led the research, said she was anxious to remove feelings of “inadequacy or underachievement” that might affect women who feared they lacked a G-spot.

    “It is rather irresponsible to claim the existence of an entity that has never really been proven and pressurise women — and men, too,” she said.

    Most conventional doctors have always doubted that G-spots exist. “I think this study proves the difference between popular science and biological or anatomical science,” said Gedis Grudzinskas, consultant gynaecologist at London Bridge hospital.

    Beverly Whipple, emeritus professor at Rutgers University, New Jersey, helped to popularise the G-spot, named after Ernst Gräfenberg, a German scientist who claimed to have discovered the elusive erogenous zone in 1950.

    Whipple found G-spots in a study of 400 women and has written a number of books on the phenomenon.

    This weekend she dismissed the findings of the British study as “flawed”, saying the researchers had discounted the experiences of lesbian or bisexual women and failed to consider the effects of different sexual technique.

    “The biggest problem with their findings is that twins don’t generally have the same sexual partner,” said Whipple.

    The quest for the G-spot will not be abandoned. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, which is publishing Burri’s and Spector’s work this week, is planning a debate, with publication of research from the pro and anti G-spot camps.

    Meanwhile, David Matlock, a Beverly Hills cosmetic surgeon, is credited with creating an artificial version of the G-spot. In some cases this has resulted in an over-sensitive zone which induces orgasms when, for example, women drive over bumps in the road.
    http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/science/article6973971.ece

    Compared to men, women are absolutely frigid and less than shallow cunts.


    I do recognize that women have some minor sexual urges. The radical feminists however went beyond available scientific evidence and pretended that most women were sex-crazed horn-dogs. Women need to be emotionally involved in a relationship with a presumably dominant alpha male before being able to have intercourse with said male, even then they are not in it for primarily sexual desire.

    I know what some people are thinking, what about hookers? Women become prostitutes for economic, not sexual reasons, much like the vast majority of every other woman. Therefore women are whores.

    Women are genetically evolved to be gold diggers and here is some background on the study. It should also come as no surprise that low-IQ women are more inclined to go after rich men than the more intelligent bunch.
    Despite the recent women's movement, sex remains much less of a preoccupation, and much less rewarding as an experience, to women than to men. While it would be nice to hope that this state of affairs could be altered by a revision of sex-role attitudes, socio-biology gives little cause for optimism. The sort of problems that men and women experience in their sex lives seem to be more a part of their basic nature than the particular social climate in which they are raised. It seems inevitable that women will continue to have problems based on lack of desire, discomfort during sex and difficulty in achieving orgasm. Men will continue to have problems with being aroused by inappropriate and unacceptable stimuli (ranging from rubber garments to the neighbour's daughter) and in maintaining romantic attention and physical stimulation long enough to satisfy their legitimate partners. The belief expressed by Griffitt and Hatfield (1985) that 'the momentum of contemporary cultural change might be expected to erase (or perhaps reverse) current male-female sexual response differences in the relatively near future' is not just over-optimistic, it is totally forlorn.
    Glenn Wilson, The Great Sex Divide, pp. 92-95. Peter Owen (London) 1989; Scott-Townsend (Washington D.C.) 1992.

    http://www.heretical.com/wilson/forgasms.html


    Seriously, don't buy into this g-spot bullshit.
  • Sarahlov3lySarahlov3ly Regular
    edited November 2010
  • MayberryMayberry Regular
    edited November 2010
    squirt

    Vid of you squirting or it didn't happen :o
  • Sarahlov3lySarahlov3ly Regular
    edited November 2010
    I was merely stating the word squirt. It's nice when the guy takes the time to let us enjoy getting off.
  • NegrophobeNegrophobe Regular
    edited June 2011
    Why do women fake it?

    June 1 2011 at 07:31am
    By Romy Wilde


    It appears that the majority of women fake orgasms, and many of them do so pretty regularly. Astonishingly, a fairly high percentage of men do too.

    If you've ever faked it you probably have a good idea why it's a widespread practice - but you're also likely to be surprised at how widespread it is.

    How often to women fake it?

    A recent British survey found that 80 percent of women faked orgasms during vaginal intercourse at least half the time - while 25 percent faked it a whopping 90 percent of the time. This was found by a team of researchers led by Dr Gayle Brewer of the University of Central Lancashire and Dr Colin A Hendrie of the University of Leeds.

    A quarter of men may be lying. A survey by the University of Kansas in the US found that 67 percent of women faked orgasms as well as almost 30 percent of men. The figure for women is comparable with previous research studies, according to Dr John Grohol, editor of Psych Central. The survey also found that some women faked a climax during oral sex, manual stimulation by their partner and phone sex.

    The findings raise the question of why people - especially such a high proportion of women - choose to be deceptive about such an important element of their relationship. During the most profoundly intimate moment of sexual ecstasy, which is surely meant to bind us together as lovers, it seems astonishing that anybody would want to be dishonest. Surely it's the ultimate moment of intimate honesty?


    The reason is simple - they realise they're not going to reach an orgasm, for whatever reason, but they choose to pretend they have either because they want to bring the sex session to an end, or they're not wanting to hurt their partner's feelings for not getting them off, or they seek to boost their partner's self-esteem by vocalising loudly to act as if they're having an amazing time.

    Why do women fake it? The Kansas University research team came up with some interesting responses as to why women fake orgasms, according to Dr Grohol. Mostly, it seems, they are being considerate to their lover's feelings.


    1. Her (explosive) end is not in sight

    Women fake orgasms if an orgasm is unlikely, when they sense that they're not going to reach a climax during a session of sex. Some men also fake it if they know their whistle isn't going to blow - especially if they have had too much alcohol, which tends to inhibit the ability to climax. Orgasms can also be elusive if we are stressed, exhausted, upset, distracted or bored.

    Many women battle to achieve an orgasm during intercourse. Only about 30 percent of women can actually reach an orgasm through penetrative intercourse. The stimulation isn't sufficient for around 70 percent of women who need direct stimulation of the clitoris to climax - and often, the clit simply doesn't get enough loving attention. Not surprisingly, women are more likely to orgasm in foreplay than in intercourse - which is why foreplay is usually the main course for the fairer sex.

    Often women have difficulty reaching an orgasm because they (and their partner) haven't yet figured out what type of stimulation they need to climax. Young women aren't encouraged to masturbate in the way that guys are, yet solo play and fantasising are the methods that the majority of women use to learn how to orgasm. So not surprisingly, some women remain pre-orgasmic (not yet had an orgasm) until they find the confidence to start masturbating and experimenting with sex toys like vibrators and by reading erotica.


    2. She wants it to end

    Women fake it if they want to bring the sex session to a close. If a woman's lover particularly wants her to have an orgasm and keeps going in the hope that she will eventually raise the rafters, she may decide to pretend that the earth's just moved for her so that he stops stimulating her.

    There are a number of possible reasons why she may want to end intercourse. She may not have been in the mood for sex but agreed to it because her partner wanted it. She may intuit that for whatever reason, she's not going to reach a climax. Or perhaps intercourse is starting to be physically uncomfortable for her.


    People often have sex to please their partner, even if they aren't in the mood. It's a generous gesture that's perfectly acceptable. Yet some women find that their partner will keep going until they reach a climax, and so they feel obliged to moan in apparent ecstasy. This is because for many women, extended sex can become physically uncomfortable.

    It's possible, for instance, to over-stimulate a woman by repeating a particular move in a particular spot for too long. The clitoris can become numb from over-massaging or if her partner is not gentle enough. Also, if a guy thrusts for a long time during intercourse, she may become too dry and the dry friction can cause tiny tears in the walls of her vagina, leading to bleeding and pain afterwards (using a quality water-based lubricant resolves this easily and pleasurably). The tears also leave her increasingly vulnerable to infections.

    The main solution to correcting over-stimulation is good communication, which is why people in long-term relationships tend to have better sex. If a woman starts to feel too dry, sensitive or numb, she can suggest trying something else for a while.


    3. She wants him to feel good

    Women fake orgasms to spare their partner's feelings. Most people dislike hurting their lover's feelings and this is particularly important in the innermost sanctity of the bedroom. Women's fake orgasms avoid the issue of the man feeling bad for not performing well enough if she was unable to reach an orgasm.

    An obvious answer to this feminine dilemma is for women to be more assertive between the sheets, firstly by knowing what triggers their own orgasms, and secondly either by coaching their partner in the right kind of stimulation for them, or by taking the lead and stimulating themselves during intercourse with their partner. One of the reasons that vibrators are so popular with women is that the vibration effect tends to elicit an orgasm far more quickly than manual or oral sex - and vibes can easily be used in couple sex as complimentary stimulation.

    Gone are the days when women were passive recipients in sex, expecting their man to magically wave his wand (pun intended) to unleash earth-shattering contractions…or are they?
    http://www.iol.co.za/lifestyle/love-sex/sex/why-do-women-fake-it-1.1076613

    From the studies I've seen, most women are inconquerably frigid. Why would women have intercourse if the majority of them get no pleasure from it? For the attention, socio-economic usage, a bargaining chip. Don't believe the bollocks about women being sex-crazed creatures. The wisdom of the Victorians truly was brilliant, they recognized the lower level of female sexual desire, as well as the total absence of any tangible evidence for female sexual insatiability (nymphomania). It was frequently noted by many physicians of the era that all women, or atleast a significant majority of them, had no sex drive whatsoever and were incapable of expressing any true level of sexual desire.
  • AmieAmie Regular
    edited June 2011
    Negrophobe wrote: »
    From the studies I've seen ...

    ITT: mysogynistic 14 year old virgin misquoting studies.
  • NegrophobeNegrophobe Regular
    edited June 2011
    "Ad-hominem attacks"

    Yawn!
  • OutbackOutback Acolyte
    edited June 2011
    Of course it's fucking there, in and up lads.
  • MeloncholyMeloncholy Regular
    edited June 2011
    Outback wrote: »
    Of course it's fucking there, in and up lads.

    ^The guide might as well just say this!
  • RemadERemadE Global Moderator
    edited June 2011
    The G-Spot exists on my girl. My floor gets soaked. A good coke-can of liquid (~300ml) once in a while.
    Will get her to prove it here someday :hai:
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