Just that..one girl
Ok so today I met a girl I had not seen in over a year, and as soon as she appeared at the train station, my heart was pounding almost through my chest. I normally hate women, but this one in particular would turn me into a bashful, soppy pile of love-shit with a hard on. We were very close at College and I had such insane feelings for her, but aside from make out once, we were never physically close.
She comes to my Uni today, was flirty as fuck over the phone and we get here. Not even a hug. Nothing. I felt like a right twat as I kept resting my head on her shoulder and Hoping for the best. After she left I sent her a text explaining why I was a soppy prick, and after she replied with "you have nothing to lose", to which I replied with "Yes I do. If I tell you honestly how I feel, I'll fear I lose you.". She knows how much she means to me. I could fuck every other woman on the planet, but still want her. She is just perfect in every. Damn. Way. :fap:
Anyone else here get what I mean? That one girl you have always wanted but could never have? And don't say "Ariel Rebel" or whatever. Her fanny looks like a Butcher's window and Porn Stars don't count.
Anyway, I'm gonna have a J in the rain. My life feels like a shitty movie now. Gonna play some Cafe Jazz for atmosphere
She comes to my Uni today, was flirty as fuck over the phone and we get here. Not even a hug. Nothing. I felt like a right twat as I kept resting my head on her shoulder and Hoping for the best. After she left I sent her a text explaining why I was a soppy prick, and after she replied with "you have nothing to lose", to which I replied with "Yes I do. If I tell you honestly how I feel, I'll fear I lose you.". She knows how much she means to me. I could fuck every other woman on the planet, but still want her. She is just perfect in every. Damn. Way. :fap:
Anyone else here get what I mean? That one girl you have always wanted but could never have? And don't say "Ariel Rebel" or whatever. Her fanny looks like a Butcher's window and Porn Stars don't count.
Anyway, I'm gonna have a J in the rain. My life feels like a shitty movie now. Gonna play some Cafe Jazz for atmosphere
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But...like...you already let her know your feelings by saying this. wtf. Just don't clingy. You should start hiding your feelings infact. Let her know you have a life outside your interaction with her, otherwise she'll think your life revolves around her and she'll just get weirded out and instantly put you in the darning friend zone. You may not be in that zone as of now.
Who knows what the future will hold. We are both similar on relationship views etc. Might just have to fuck one of her mates :hai:
That said, Gary and Daktologist sound a lot like me! It's comforting to know you're not alone.
But yeah I remember that feeling OP, That you would do anything to nail her
I know the feeling homeslice. Unfortunately I've yet to see this chick naked. Even if I did, just for a second. Fap material is fine, too.
Was thinking of her throughout the whole of this. Grow some bollocks, RemadE.
Great friend zone guide!
Don't be careless with peoples hearts. Don't put up with someone who's careless with yours.
The only thing holding you back is yourself.
Apart from that brilliant plan, Rolf can suggest not to get clingy with said maiden, it is a good way to appear crazy and obsessive. Why does thou not just ask her if she wants to go out sometime, it is simple, states Rolf, and has worked for Rolf in the past, just be laid back and not a soppy, love-sick, douchebag... some seem to think it makes them appear romantic, but all it does is make them appear both annoying and desperate, states Rolf.
EDIT: Daily and Vineman speak wisdom, states Rolf.
Sounds like she isn't worth the trouble.
why do you have that gay 4chan avatar? geht that shit ouuta here faggot!
The only advice I can give at this point, is understand it is a situation you really can't control, and any efforts trying to romanticize your relationship with her will be wasted time at best. My thing always is.....weigh your situation on a "scale" of sorts, whether its woman issues or other things in your life.
When you add up all the cons vs. the pros.....you'll probably realize this gal gives you more worry/fear/trepidation/uncertainty/not being yourself then she does any kind of "joy"....and if you could possibily use the "scale" imagery to compare them, you'll realize just how bad for you she really is.
Your best fucking shot at getting her and maintaining a serious fucking relationships would be to ignore her for a while and go out with a bunch of different girls and get a lot of fucking experience so some months, maybe years from now you will have enough to actually carry something on with her. And hopefully you would forget all about her in the process and find a better girl, that actually has a lot in common with you and not some fucking idealized version of a person your virgin ass (mentally virgin, if physically not) is obsessing over.
This insult is coming from a guy called superbutsecks?
First you asked my why I have it and then you called me a faggot shortly right after. I have Yotsuba as my avatar, because it reminds me of my childhood. I've read a couple of chapters in the manga and I find it quite humorous. Yotsuba is definitely a strange girl, but she's a pretty cool guy. It's not entirely *chan though. lol
But srsly OP listen to Daily and Spazz 'cuz they be right.
Shit I've should have known.
Also, good stuff OP.
Being shy and indecisive doesn't make you "deep." Girls don't like deep guys in the first place. Unless the girl is fugly. This isn't middle school anymore. This is the real world where you either fuck or get fucked.
Man up, show some value, and take her on a date. Have fun and be yourself. If she doesn't respond to it, then move the fuck on because you're only wasting your time. Stop putting an emphasis on whether or not you're dating or not dating. Hang out and see where it goes. If you end up just being friends what's wrong with that?
I'm not trying to be mean but seriously guy, have some balls. That's what women want. This girl most likely is interested in you but if you don't take what's yours it'll just slip through your fingers.
That's a good lad. There was no point in worrying now was there? :thumbsup: