So here's the situation:
I've been with my gf for about 4 yrs. I broke up with her when i went travelling for 3 months(I'd been wanting to break up for a while, the trip seemed like a good time.) We immediately got back together when I returned, we just sort of fell straight back into a relationship. We now live together and have been for a year. I've been unhappy for a while now and I've been thinking of breaking up again - its difficult though because we live together.
I was recently working away for a few days and I met a girl I really like. I don't know if she likes me, she hasn't made any major signs or moves so I don't know. Anyway, having come back home and returning to my normal place of work - this new girl is gonna be at my work for the next 3 or 4 weeks so i will be seeing her everyday. If I was single I'd have no problem asking her out - i don't know if its appropriate though if I have a gf.
I don't know if this new girl knows I have a gf. If she does, i don't know how she would react if I asked her out. Should I be honest and tell her I have a gf but that im planning to break up with her? Or do I break up with gf first - because we live together i want to choose and good time to break the news so that we will be at the end of our lease and can easily move out. This will be in february - Should I wait before chasing the new girl and risk her finding someone else in the next 2 months?
Any comments/advice welcome.