erections....

The GeneralThe General Regular
edited January 2011 in Life
I'm having issues getting erections (I'm only 17). Last night I was getting intimate with this girl and I couldn't stay hard. For the past few days I've had 0 thoughts or wants to masturbait and if I try to make myself I can pop a boner but it's just kinda "bleh". I have had 0 sex drive. Do you think just being a teen and my hormones through the roof something is going on? I mean I've started school this week and done heavy weight lifting so that may be what is causing it... idk.

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  • jamie madroxjamie madrox Sith Lord
    edited August 2010
    It's all good, you're just a fag
  • The GeneralThe General Regular
    edited August 2010
    oh ok that's what it was.

    man am I dumb



    oh and I've been eating a ton of ramen noodles this week. I'm starting to think that's what it is...
  • fanglekaifanglekai Regular
    edited August 2010
    Diet can affect erections. Too much salt, not enough water, not enough vitamins, too much fast food, etc. Lack of sleep will mess up your sex drive too.
  • MayberryMayberry Regular
    edited August 2010
    Are you stressed out? Sometimes stress can keep boners from lasting.

    If all else fails:

    viagra-pills.jpg
  • OnTheFringeOnTheFringe Acolyte
    edited September 2010
    have a threesome instead
  • edited September 2010
    When getting intimate with the girl, we're you thinking about "oh god don't lose this erection"?

    Because I thought this once, and it went down on me.
  • Mr.HappyMr.Happy Acolyte
    edited September 2010
    Yeah, you need to get it out of your mind. It happens occasionally, but if you start worrying about it, it'll happen more. I went through a spell of this at 15 or 16 after losing it during a (frankly terrible) handjob and it played on my mind for a few months after, with aggravating results.

    The best cure is just to get moderately drunk and fuck without planning to. Heat of the moment. Once you do, you'll be all like "hey, I was the man of fucking steel all through that, awesome!" and there you go, problem solved.

    If you're just getting into sexual experiences, it might also just be because it's not as physically awesome as it's built up to be.
  • StephenPBarrettStephenPBarrett Adviser
    edited September 2010
    Experiment with yourself a bit (porn, various masturbation) and find out what truly turns you on. The results may surprise you. Whatever you find out (unless its illegal) try to apply this to intimate situations if you think you can. Also get off the opiates for a while, those can make you lose your sex drive.
  • fanglekaifanglekai Regular
    edited September 2010
    I think it's mostly mental. If you freak out about it you can psyche yourself out. I've been with girls and not been able to get hard. It happens to every guy. For me it's when I'm nervous. Thinking too much will mess everything up. Focus on pleasure.
  • jarkofjarkof Regular
    edited September 2010
    Is this just with girls or do you not get morning wood either. You really shouldnt have a medical problem at this age. Maybe you just werent that attracted to her. .
  • acid_dropacid_drop Regular
    edited September 2010
    Mr.Happy wrote: »
    losing it during a (frankly terrible) handjob and it played on my mind for a few months after, with aggravating results.

    If someone thinks an HJ is going to satisfy me, I quit. If someones whole intention is to horribly beat my dick without anything else, I'm calling it a night. I've never gotten off during HJ(that wasn't my own :P) or BJ. Probably why I last forever in bed. Although it's the WORST when you go forever, and can't get off and know you aren't going to. :(
    The best cure is just to get moderately drunk and fuck without planning to. Heat of the moment. Once you do, you'll be all like "hey, I was the man of fucking steel all through that, awesome!"


    I prefer to amaze the shit out of myself every time I get sloshed and it still manages to stand at attention.
  • edited September 2010
    I find that photo shopping pictures of sheep with scanties and stockings always does it for me!
    Give it a try sheep.jpg
  • jarkofjarkof Regular
    edited September 2010
    It did it for me too thanks.
  • DfgDfg Admin
    edited September 2010
    Think with your boner, not you head. It will cum :D
    I find that photo shopping pictures of sheep with scanties and stockings always does it for me!
    Give it a try sheep.jpg

    Holy fuck, Victoria Secret!

    *Fap fap fap*
  • DfgDfg Admin
    edited September 2010
    I bet this gets you rock hard :o

    victoriasecret.jpg
    Fuck man, I am wasted as hell but I still managed to get a boner out of it.

    Saved for later fappage.
  • jarkofjarkof Regular
    edited September 2010
    Holy shit all this bestiality is getting me worked up. IceeWeiner, Mayberry, and Albino Ethiopian its time to get busy.
  • MayberryMayberry Regular
    edited September 2010
    #rimjobs AWAAAAAAAAAAAY!
  • jarkofjarkof Regular
    edited September 2010
    Haha my thoughts exactly Mayberry. Except that my damn IRC client wont work no more. Neither will chatzilla and meebit. No idea what I did. All well I will take care of it when I have time but I dont really have much right now due to college.
  • MayberryMayberry Regular
    edited September 2010
    You're missing out, we have lotsa fun, although no adventures :p

    Get well soon :fap:
  • speedfeedspeedfeed New Arrival
    edited January 2011
    Well, I've never had that problem, but maybe your low on testosterone, you could try get some roids, specifically testosterone, it'll make you pop a boner when then the wind blows. I may not be the best thing if your only 17 because it can fuck up development of the body, and screw up your hormone production, but low test is the problem then it would fix it. The normal male body produces I believe 6-15mg of test per day so you could go to a doctor and get it checked, if your on the low side, you can probably get a script. I give myself a boner when I look in the mirror.
  • MayberryMayberry Regular
    edited January 2011
    Erectile dysfunction has very little to do with testosterone. It might be the case, but very rarely. If your testosterone levels are low enough to cause impotence, you'll be having much more problems than just trying to get hard. For sexual purposes, normal adult males make much more testosterone than actually needed, and taking more testosterone won't help much as there's only so many testosterone receptors available.
  • speedfeedspeedfeed New Arrival
    edited January 2011
    Mayberry wrote: »
    Erectile dysfunction has very little to do with testosterone. It might be the case, but very rarely. If your testosterone levels are low enough to cause impotence, you'll be having much more problems than just trying to get hard. For sexual purposes, normal adult males make much more testosterone than actually needed, and taking more testosterone won't help much as there's only so many testosterone receptors available.

    I don't claim to be an expert on testosterone's effect for sexual purposes, although I can say from my own experience that it will cause unexpected boners when taken for muscle building, and if will help men who are older and have low sex drive because of decreased testosterone, although I do realize that this would be rare thing in a younger person.
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