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Lack of Father's Rights

by Alykorn

The lack of a fathers’ rights in America, more specifically Texas, is outrightly disgraceful for “modern” Americans to hold firmly in a frame of mind. At the time that the Child Support laws were made most women did not have jobs or if they did they were menial compared to a mans. Now days more and more women hold jobs that are better then mens jobs. This means more money, more benefits and yet they still get a large sum of child support.

For example, my husbands’ ex-wife has taken him to court 25 times in less than 4 years. One year before the divorce she convinced my husband to adopt her two kids from a previous marriage. So they could 'be a complete family' because they had one kid of their own.Then she moves everything out including the kids while he is at work one day.She wants a divorce. She wanted the house, the truck and the children. She did not get the house for she had no right to it according to the law, she did not get the truck, even though she had a car of her own. She told the judge that the car she drove was not hers, and was proven in front of the judge that the title to the car had her and only her name on it. Yet nothing was done to her for perjury under oath. The judge gave her full custody of the oldest girl, gave my husband custody of the oldest boy, and they shared custody of the youngest child.

Then his ex- wife decided she needed child support. She went a two year campaine where she made the children feel that their father was less than dirt. She convinced the oldest boy that he needed to live with her because he didn’t want to do chores anymore. With that promise he promply went to live with her and upon more promises of his mother of a room of his own with a TV and stereo, he lied to the judge about abuse and having to do all the chores. Then the order of 150.00 a week to be paid for child support plus full insurance on all three children.Sadly, it came to light that not only did the oldest boy have to do chores but he had to share a room with his little brother and her new husbands brother. By some means this is normal and most reason it ok but only if you get to see the children you are paying for. And that is all it boils down too… you have to pay to see your children. Sadly, my husband has not seen the two oldest children in three years, the children he helped raise from toddlers on up. Now they don’t even call him dad they call him by his first name and try to convince the youngest that my husband is not his father that his mom’s new husband is his rightful father. Even though he doesn’t speak a lick of eniglish.

Even though the ex-wife remarried, bought 2 new vehicles, a new house(which she is adding on to) and has started up a bussiness. She saves on overhead by employing the children and her husband and his two brothers which are all illegal alieans from Mexico. Nice little situation right? It gets even better. With the arrangement of the youngest and the only biological child of the three, he was to be dropped off once a week, only on Fridays to stay with one parent until the next Friday. My husbands ex-wife now tells the judge that it was unstable for the child, so they switch everything around to where he is dropped off every Wednesday and every 1st 3rd and 5th Friday. Now it is even more unstable.

Then the unthinkable happened, my husband lost his job. He told his Ex and all she wanted to know is if the childsupport would still be coming. He drained his savings account trying to pay it so she would quit making the smallest child cry , endlessly ragging on the ex husband. His son would come home and sit on his lap and cry over his mom’s endless nagging and degrading remarks and sending her new husband to hit the children to keep them in line. When that didn’t work she resorted to giving them powerful perscription drugs.Which my husband had no knowledge of the two oldest being medicaded.

With the savings account drained, we barely kept our heads above water because of my job at a fast food resturant. Finally, 4 months later he got a job. He made half of what he was before so he commistioned a lawyer to lower the child support. The court date was set six months after he went to the lawyer. Not the next month or two.Then it got cancled and he has to wait another 3 months to lower the child support.Nine months after he went to a lawyer he gets a court date.Until then he sends 75.00 a week to help her out. That was not enough, she wanted the full amount,then she turned him into the attorney generals and they sends him letters saying that he has to pay 7,000+ dollars by next month. Plus interest.

He called the attorney’s generals office and they told no matter if he gets it lowered he still has to pay the seven thousand sum or they will charge interest by the day. They told him that he should have gone to a lawyer and got the court date set before he lost his job. Even though my husband didn’t know he was about to get the ax. He asked if when in front of the judge, he could ask if the judge could regress the amount to the time he lost his job, the answer was a resounding No. Nevermind that he sent 75.00 a week when, in most men minds, that they don’t have to pay at all until the new court date. Nevermind the fact he tried to tell his ex-wife the situation but she wouldn’t hear any of it she just wanted a check. Nevermind the fact that he sat on the phone for two hours argueing with the state that the two oldest were his kids and that they needed to be on insurance. She refuses to insure the oldest kids so my husband will have to pay the full amount of what she pays for persciption drugs and doctors. Nevermind the fact that she has her own bussiness , she told the schoolthat she worked two days a week so all the kids get free lunches. Never mind the fact that she brings in 60,000 a year and my husband makes less than 25,000 a year.

It is disgraceful that he tried to pay SOMETHING of the child support so the children would not suffer, that he pays the child support even though he has not seen two of his adopted children in three years or heard from them; and yet his credit is ruined. He will never be able to get a new vehicle without a horribly large amount of interest. He is the one father I know that has tried to be a father, but because of red tape he is branded for life as a deadbeat dad because of outdated laws. No matter what he tries to do , he has a quarter of the rights that of a woman. Women scream and cry that they are equal until it comes to child support, then they merclessly try and be pathetic so they will get more money. That is all it comes down too, they want money. No matter that he tries his hardest to be in the childs life and be a good father he is branded.

All because of money. Money is the root of all evil and appearently it is true. The laws need to be revised and have taxes added onto them. Child support should be taxed. Women look at it as if it is free money that they can spend in anyway they want. It is child support, not ex-wife support.

This is why men run like hell to get away from their responsibilities. No matter how hard they try it isn’t enough and most women revel in that fact. They think the are better, and will shove it in mens faces as much as they can in court or out of court.

Women need a wake up call and need to show some compassion. If you act like that then are no better than a whore.

 
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