What's Best for My Child

by dabombmom

Well, in reference to the submissions regarding women and what they do to men after they have their baby. It makes me ashamed to share the same female gender. I've told my son, “Be careful with whom you are intimate with, they could possibly own your life.” Women have taken the miracle out of childbirth. What should be the most joyous time in one's life, whether maternal or paternal, has been so misused by women, that it turns it bitter and filled with resentment. It's now like serving a life sentence.

Let me share a little about myself. I am a single mother of four children, son 17. daughters 16, 7, and 5. The two older ones dad died 2 years after we split up so social security provided for them, but before then I told him that as long as he did what he could for his children, then I would never take him to court. The 7 year old has no memory of her dad; it's been since she was 3 weeks old since he's laid eyes on her. When I applied for government assistance, they took it in their hands on pursuing child support. They finally caught up with him when he was arrested on serious drug charges. He missed the first court date so they decided to go ahead and prepare the orders. When the person with Attorney General asked me how much I wanted, I told her zero. She looked at me oddly and told me she couldn't do that. I went on to say that I wanted what was best for my child, and in my opinion that was and still is for her to have a solid, stable loving relationship with both parents. (It bothers her very much that her father doesn't want nor try to see her, and I don't think I can answer her questions because I'm not certain of the answers myself.) So the lady asked me again and I told her the least amount she was required to get. She said minimum wage which came out to $125 a month. She asked me what about insurance and I told her I was satisfied with medicaid. She said she could do that and just add $25 to it. (Some of you guys that have to buy insurance plans for your children might look into this, I was surprised.) Next she asked me what I wanted to do about the 6 year arrears that was due me, again I told her I wanted nothing more than her dad to be a part of her life, so I wanted nothing for the past 6 years. She looked at me with a gaping mouth from shock. I said, “a first”? and she just nodded her head.

The valuable lesson here, which I hope some women read this with an open heart instead of revenge or greediness, I wanted what would be BEST for my child whom I love with all of my life. To break it down and make it simple, why would I want to give anyone, especially her father, any reason for resentment, dread or any thing unfavorable for my daughter. The government and all our so called laws have pretty much taken the mom and dads out of family anyway. There should never have been government as a parent nor a price tag on dads nor a price tag on love. If you take away someone's freedom to live (if you don't pay, you go to jail) the love for the child turns sour because of the mother and her greed or her desire for revenge.

Wrapping it up, there are very few females out there with a true heart, I'm the only one I know. I have so much pride in raising and supporting my children on my own. That's my reward in life. But I'm not even close to being the average female. In fact, the only thing I have in common with the evil bitches are the female parts and I'm living proof that having this doesn't make them that way. It's a choice. So females here it is WWJD?

dabombmom