Crimsonsmoke's Guide to Oral Sex
Crimsonsmoke's Guide to Oral Sex.
Gift to your girl. This is your crash course in female orgasm Note: most of this will sound very obvious; however, it takes a lot more effort and skill than you think.
Step 1: Your partner:
You have to get acquainted with their body and what they like. It is crucial that they can make themselves cum before you should make an attempt at it. This is primarily so that nothing comes as to much of a shock [mind the pun ], but also because they need to know what feels good and what feels bad. So it's not good trying to get some dried up frigid girl to orgasm because you'll be there all night. What do they look like?: Their pussy that is. Dothey have a large clit? Is it very sensitive? Doare they going to have to help with "pulling themselves apart" –meaning stretching the outer-labia [outer-lips]. This is all through experience. It's no good trying to get your girl to cum on the first time you have sex, you're not Ron Jeremy and, therefore, you're not a sex god! Remember the key to a good relationship is communication. That applies to orgasms too, talk to her about what she likes.
Step 2:
Now that you are familiar with your partner we can move on. Make sure she is lying on her back with her legs flat.Begin the session with all attention on her, BUT do not go anywhere near that pussy yet. You gotta lube her up first and we're not using any of that KY shit, you want to do this the natural way. Caress her body, explore, have some fun yourself. Ask her what she likes [but do it sexy as there's no sense in saying "Or right darlin', where can I put ma fist?"] –be gentle. Don't be afraid to use your tongue, but be subtle, don't lick her like a dog!Nibble her ears if that's her thing, stroke her hair –tell her you love her [if you actually do] and make her feel like a goddess. I find that stroking the stomach and sucking/nibbling the breast works good. EXPERIMENT.
Step 3:
Now, once you feel ready [and she is too] begin to work your way down. Use the tip of your finger to touch her pussy, open it up very gently and with her permission, insert it inside her [HAWT]! If she is wet and I mean wet you can move onto "Step 4" –if not repeat "Step 2". You want to get her moaning as well. Tell her that she can make some noise and to not to be afraid.
Step 4:
Move your tongue down between her legs. Kiss her pussy gently and, if you like, kiss around her pussy to get that extra bit of arousal. Here's the most difficult bit. It's difficult because every woman's different. Once you're bothready, get her to pull her lips apart. Now use one of your hands to pull up her clit hood [that's the bit at the top] –with this hand, if you're really skilled like me , you can rub her stomach at the same time! Her clit should be like a little round ball –you can't miss it. The clit is now your new best friend for the next few minutes –that's the bit you're going to be using your tongue. Now, with you other hand, get your index finger and insert into her pussy [you may need to lick you finger first]. The next bits separated into two parts, however, both of these actions should be done simultaneously.
Licking: Begin to lickher clit –start gentle and move you tongue from side to side in a flicking motion. If she finds it too strong just go gentler until she's comfortable. You will find that after a while you will build up enough saliva to act as a wall between your tongue and her clit. This will allow you to become rougher. Move your tongue up and down as well, but try to keep a steady motion because she has to do some work too. You have to keep in rhythm –this may sound weird, but she will have to tense her muscles in her legs to coincide with your licking. It may take some practice, but believe me it's worth it.
Fingering: Start off very slow.You may not want to every put it in straight away as it can be too over whelming. Once she's wet enough though, put your finger in so that it faces upwards. Begin to massage the upper wall of her pussy, so slow! You can pull it in and out, but don't twist it round because this is incredibly off putting. You're not aiming for anywhere in particular –try find the G-spot if you wish, but it's not the most important thing. This action is more of anadded accessory.
Step 5: "Thar she blows."
Now after a while she will begin to feel it. You will notice her breathing will become irregular and she will begin to pant.This is where she's getting close. This is your chance to get more intense! Use your tongue and finger to really get her off! When she eventually comes you will feel it! She will scream or moan very loud so make sure your parents are not it! Her pussy will also contract inwards so your finger will feel that also. If it is a good orgasm [and the first usually are] her body may even spasm –this is when she's really enjoying it. So there you go! Sit back and have a nice glass of champagne and enjoy the moment.
Cheers, Crimsonsmoke.
Comments
I didn't know you could give a girl head?
Decent guide for a beginner or somewhat that is afraid to do it.
It usually means Rolf needs not cook for a few days, though Rolf enjoys the cook, so rewarding, it might not be, in the eye of Rolf.
If you enjoy the cook it's still win-win!
Great guide btw.