Define Kinky
StephenPBarrett
Adviser
I think that many people have different ideas of what is and isnt kinky. To me kinky is defined as any certain sexual activity that falls into a fetish category. What do you think is kinky? Do you like kinkyness? How are you kinky?
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Perverted is useing the whole chicken.
But here is my opinion anyway;
Kinky and fun;
Bondage
Light sadism and masochism, usually no blood.
Role play
Watching porn together
Toys, especially vibrating cock rings, try one!
Kinky but not for me;
Swinging; (just not into someone else banging my woman, who knows 20 years from now)
Anal, her or me; Just doesn't turn me on, I like vag, I used to get a little freaky while jerking off, but not for a long time, just grew out of it I guess.
Feet; just don't get it, whats erotic about a foot?
Really nasty BDSM, crowd scenes, leather/vinyl fetish parties; Too much pain, too many people, just not the social type.
Bi curious; not bi, not curious.
Altogether ooky;
Pee and poo; nasty, piss and shit belong in the toilet.
Bestaility; watched my share out of curiosity, never really got turned on by it, and now think it's gross.
Incest; it's fun to hide the noodle with your cousin when you are both 8, but really, does anyone actually fuck their father/mother/sister/brother, or do people just write about it?
The difference between 'kinky but not interested' and 'altogether ooky' for me is simple; if someone told me they were into something kinky I was not interested in I would still respect them, if someone told me they liked to fuck their dog or sister while covered in shit and piss, I would be suspicious of their mental state and start avoiding them. My line is pretty low, but it still exists.
C/O
"dirty old bastard"
Ps. "Ooky"? reminded me of (I think) the South Park episode where they sing the whole "ooky and-a looky" song. I think. Fuck, you got me thinking now!
Edit #2 - FOUND IT! It's the song they sing in South park Hell
That's fucking stupid, dude. You can't use your arbitrary delineations of 'kinky' and 'super-kinky' to infer anything about someone's mind beyond that certain stuff turns them on.
You're right, but I can choose who I associate with based on whatever info I have. I should have chosen my words better, as I would not associate these behaviors with mental illness, at least not mental illness that would affect other parts of their lives, but just knowing someone did stuff like that would have a negative effect on my opinion of them. I do all kinds of shit that could put people off if they knew about it , and maybe choose not to associate with me, I could care less about their opinions, just as I'm sure the people who do things I find revolting could care less about mine. I give you:thumbsup::thumbsup: for being open minded, and calling me on it.
C/O
"coprophagia anyone?"
I Googled it:thumbsup:
I personally don't consider anal "kinky", but anything that involves toys/rope/pain/piss/shit/animals/relatives/dead is not for me.
Kinky is for bizarre things like having cakes smashed on your face, wearing diapers, watching clips of trains.
BDSM stuff is just normal.
Aww you fucker, that is the first thing I thought of when I saw this thread in new posts.