Ok so I need to bump my "bump when you had sex" thread but I'm in a real dilemma.
My ex was a fucking freak in the sack. Imagine the dirtiest girl and add more to it. Get the picture? Yeah. Well since we broke up which was a rather drawn-out process, I've had some severe issues.
Ok well to keep it short and to the point, it's actually an effort to get it up and keep it. I can only get a twitch if some girl knows how to press my buttons and halfway through I'm just not interested. The anxiety and related reminds me of my opiate days where I'd be so fucked I couldn't get a hard on and therefore the anxiety would make it a vicious circle.
Short of talking to a Doctor which I think is a tad embarrasing for my age, what the hell can I do? Maybe it's all my exposure to the most hardcore of hardcore stuff (everything minus scat and watersports) and feeling like I've burnt out before my time.
But in a way, at least it keeps me sane. No woman ties or troubles.
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You might be pining for your x a little also, and that to be expected. Sometimes a little depression will throw a wrench into your works. You just have to remember these things will pass and look forward to being happy in the future.
Your brain controls your dick.
I stopped worrying gradually, turning any negative thoughts into ones of sexual awesomeness. Bit by bit, I got back on track
My advice would be;
Stop worrying about it. Don't let it get to your head.
Take a nice break from sex, wanking, porn, etc etc etc.
Get back into the groove in a few days/a week, however long it takes you to build up a nice fat urge to either whack one off or screw a girl.
I regularly take 1/4 of a viagra tablet in a morning first thing. Not for any help in that department however. It just stops me pissing on my slippers first thing.
lolwut? How does that work?
Hahaha ... Good stuff!
Thanks for the support guys. Nice to see I'm not alone and hopefully it's just a phase. I'm going through a helluva lot in life as it is what with pressures of work, hospitals, family etc so it could quite easily be a combination of everything on my mind. I was starting to get worried though, and hence &T was my last ditch attempt at asking for advice.
As for TDR's comment, I will start looking for love when I think I am mature enough to. It's my last year of University, so I figured I may as well enjoy it. But I get major mood shifts. Once I had sex then threw bleach over myself in the shower. Messed up. I suppose if I can overcome that, then this should only be a temporary blip on my radar of life.
I thank you all for the input.
There's your answer.
Enjoy your future erections.
edit - Just went for a chat with a Urologist and they said if it persists then head back in a month or so but anxiety is a common issue with it all. Also got swayed into an STD test "while I was there for convenience" and had Dfg's Mum put this thing down my japseye.
im interested to know why you cant?
Well there we go :hai: