As most of you will see from swim’s status this is his first post, he has come to this site as a substitute of
www.totse2.com from the rumor that you have less flamers, so let’s find out.
Swim has a problem; swim will start from the beginning.
Swims girlfriend works at a fast food restaurant, she has worked there for about a year. Recently there has been an older man (Swims not sure of the age its between 40 and 60) coming in as a customer. He started as a regular customer and is now “creeping her”. He asks if she’s single a lot, how old she is (she’s under 20), and other obviously creeper questions, he comes in every time with an underage Asian woman which from swims girlfriends surveillance shows that she is not voluntarily following him, swim and his girlfriend believe that she is living with him to support her as a prostitute or to support a drug addiction or whatever. Anyways he is constantly hitting on her and “creeping” her, and one time a couple months ago swim could not pick her up to drive her home and she had to walk (swims gf) , he followed her home and tried to catch up to her multiple times to the point she had to run home. That night swim loaded something and took a walk trying to find said asshole but had no luck seeing how swim has no idea who this person is; all in all swim needs to banish said shit head from visiting her work.
Swim has a plan, he will park outside said restaurant a day when she identifies asshole and follow his ass, learn everything he can about him but swim is not sure of next move, he is thinking of a home invasion to warn asshole that if he does not leave town or stop visiting the restaurant there will be consequences or something that will stop this. What do you think, this needs to stop.
Ideas are appreciated, flamers can eat his shit.
Comma,
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1) Confront him face to face and deal with it. If you want to carry a weapon then don't make it a gun. Just in case he kicks off though.
2) Realise that all Women attract attention and dump her after saving her from a creepy fucker.
I just hate women. That's all.
I say Swim needs to find a legitimate means to deal with the issue before going and doing something threatening. Get the issue addressed with officially with her supervisors, bring it to the attention of the police and if they won't do shit, just go address him and tell him to fuck off. But do it maturely (so not literally telling him to fuck off). Just be curt and to the point, don't get wound up by your emotions and harass him yourself because he can just call the cops on you and it's not really worth that.
Have some of her coworkers walk her to her car, or have her carpool with coworkers from work to make sure she doesn't get harassed while leaving work. If other people at her place of work are aware she is being harassed I'd hope they would keep an eye out for her when she leaves.
I would say the most important thing here is to think about this carefully, weigh your options and consider how far your willing to go to handle this and be ready for whatever the out come might be. Don't make any hasty decisions, acting in the heat of the moment leads to sloppy decisions, which could make a potentially easily handled problem a god damned catastrophe. Whatever you do just try and keep it cool.
Yup, seems to be the case. That always slightly bugs me, if someone posts a question you would think that they would have the decency to reply to other peoples posts