I keep thinking about this girl. I've had crushes of course, but this has gone on for entirely too long and too often. I'm going to ask her out soon.
In the meantime how do you tell if you're in love with someone or just infatuated with them? She isn't the finest finest girl I've ever dated, but she still looks really good, the thing is I'm not even concerned with her looks anymore! Obviously that's how she caught my attention in the first place, but now I realize that's just the tip of the ice berg with this girl...
I'm gonna go ahead and shut up now.
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there's only one way to find out, so i'm going to ask her out and see how it goes.
i've figured out what it is anyways... and yes i still feel the same about her, if not more so now that i truely understand.
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Love would come from their character. If you fall in love with their outer beauty (only), that won't last.
Have you EVER masturbated to pictures or the thought of her? If so, thats infatuation.
Do you eat much less, can't stop thinking about her, think she is the best looking girl you have seen whether or not she is the prettiest? Do you feel sad because you're not with her? And if it doesn't work out, if you still feel affection and care for her after its all done, then it (was) is love.
If thou loves not said interest, then Rolf suggests the brilliant Finnish creation, known as "Molotov" in combination with the brilliant Rolfish creation, known as "Everything".
Date first, fall in love later. NOT the other way round.
You can just say you like her.
Love dies after the honeymoon period anyway. It's the "Coolidge effect". What's left afterwards is different, it's more of a partnership. "The thrill is gone", so to speak.
Read this: http://www.reuniting.info/science/coolidge_effect
And this: http://www.reuniting.info/science/coolidge_effect_2009
So hit that shit.
I agree completely. The initial spark recently left my relationship, and what's left is a feeling that I could happily stay with this girl for as long as time can tell and never get bored, haha.
So yeah, hit that shit as much as you can.
This and this. It sounds like OP is more in love with his idea of her more than actual experience. How well do you know this girl?
i made her favorite snack for her and because i can't think straight around her i forgot to ask her out then lol. so i emailed her (we email a lot) about me taking her out sometime and now i'm waiting on what she says.
this is really getting retarded, i've never emailed a girl asking her out before or forgot what i was going to say when the time came before for that matter. i feel like everything i learned from slaying hoes has gone out the window.
cool name btw
Yeah... Too bad stability = death.
Life = instability.
Infatuation= The person doesn't love you back. They seek you for self-interest.
If this is vague.
Then
Infatuation= Immaturity, superficial, and pleasing oneself to what they desire (and not having consent of their partner to do what they really want.)
Love= Partnership, Trust, Ups&Downs, Trials&Tribulations