1). Picture in your mind the person you'd like to be.
Picture it in great detail. What that person is dressed like, the way he walks, the way he talks, the way he acts, the way he thinks.
Then start "acting" that person out. Pretend you're playing a role of that person. Keep doing it until you are the person you want to be.
2). Make it a target to approach 10 girls every day over the next 10 days.
That alone will give you a 100 experiences of approaching women. Doesn't matter if you get rejected or not, keep with the plan. Understand, that, most of the times you get rejected it's not because the girl doesn't like you - most likely she's just not interested in meeting new people at the moment for whatever reason.
3). Mental rehearsing. Every night , rehearse the events that happened during the day, when you think you acted in the wrong way. Rehearse the whole situation in every detail, but act the right way this time.
Eventually, when you face a similar situation in real life, you will not make the mistake anymore.
This technique is actually used in many fields - I know that a lot of athletes use it to perfect their technique. Imagining something in your mind in great detail for 10-15 minutes is almost as useful as doing it in real life.
If I were a mediocre-looking to hot chick, wouldn't I find it a little annoying that some random guy was coming on to me? Guys come on to chicks all the time.
Everybody hates "players"; I'm pretty sure that fad ended, seeing as that post was originally made in 2008. Is all that post is some crap by a player? Or do people actually expect it to work?
Even though I'm no longer interested in girls (no homo), I'd like to know the reasoning behind this. Not to mention it makes you come across as desperate.
Arrrgghh I hate myself for even making this thread, but I just don't understand this at all. If I was a hot chick I'd want to be left alone when I go out; not have some retarded guys constantly hitting me up.