This girl who I'm madly in love with has been staying with me for the past week. We haven't been alone and someone else has always been there. We've seriously gotten to know each other. She grew a soft spot for me she said and she laughs everytime I say "she wants to fuck." She said that she loves me but I don't know which love. I cook for her, did her laundry, etc (Hope she isn't just using me). I tried a few times to make her my gf but she said but at least you get an awesome female friend. I really want her mine and no others.
Granted I'm fat but it's not full fat, I have muscle also and I'm not ugly for a fat guy and mentally I'm perfect for her.
What do I do?
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This. You're done. There's two things you can do now: Tell her to make her own sandwich, or rape.
Even if after you lose weight she still doesn't like you, then at the least you will have become healthier and more attractive.
I'm seriously not your usual fat fuck. I'm 6'4 and my fat is seriously even all over and I can hide it pretty damn well honestly. I'll post pics on me later and her later.
There's your problem.
Women want to be wanted, sexually.
I tell her that all the damn time. I'm always saying "She wants to fuck," and blah. Its not my initial intention is what I meant.
"She's a lesbian."
With an attitude like that no wonder she doesn't want your dick.
maybe stop telling her directly, talk about other women, and what you DON'T like about them. and find a way to beat around the bush a little. maybe throw in that you LIKE the things about HER that you don't like about other women. it sounds like she's scared. good friends man, there are RARE. i wouldn't want to lose one. and there's a very good chance that by making her see things your way. that it will all change. and in the end you will most likely end up hurting each other. i'll bet that's how she feels.
be persistent, and this one is dangerous, but have you tried showing interest in other girls? it might make her see that you wont wait forever. its risky. but its worked for me.
has she really told you that she loves you? if she has, then that's enough; be determined, you only live ONE time. what have you got to lose? a chance at happiness good sex and a once in a life time experience with another human being. that's what. stop being a pussy and dig down deep, get what you want. i'm sure you've been through some shitty shit. maybe this is your chance, to have something better.:mad:
The last post wasn't made by me btw.
Sex is usually a pretty emotional deal for females so after that she might become a bit more attached to you. Either that or tell you it was a mistake and leave.
Only one way to find out.
Delicious copypasta, and you all ate it.
I saw this on 4chan days ago.
I probably posted it on 4chan?
You found a nice cardboard box to sleep in?
She's pretty.
OT: Either you don't give up yet and follow one of the suggestions already given to you (or make a paln of your own to make her yours) or you get over her.
However, if you're always hanging out with her, you won't get over her. So if you wwanna get over her, here's what you do: Do not communicate with her, do not see her, do not go out with her etc. for the next couple weeks / months. Meanwhile, get out and meet new ladies. You could tell her why exactly you're doing this as to not lose her as a friend once you've found a new girl and are ready to face her again.